Goddamn it’s time to make this post. Both men I’ve been with tried to talk me into doing things after I have said no. I looked past it but I think people no matter what gender SHOULD NOT DO THIS. If I tell you not to put your hand in my pants, and I have to push you away when you try you are wrong. If I have to repeat that I do not want it there you are wrong. If you say “but it will feel good,” or ask me why know that I am supremely annoyed. Likewise if you try to make me feel guilty by saying “but I would really like to…” reevaluate. Please do not question your partner’s wishes for you to not touch them. It’s common fucking bedroom courtesy.